Advice for (my) College Parties. Thoughts?

BeatBoxing_Abe · 2013-02-04T14:58:07+00:00

Try kissing girls. Seriously. What will happen is probably a quarter will no longer want to talk to you. Half wont care. And the best part is a quarter will start kissing you and from there if you can't lead it to sex then thats on you.

If you just try kissing girls like this you are being pretty damn clear what your intentions are. After doing it a few times you will be able to calibrate it better and maybe after a while fifty percent of girls kiss you back instead of twenty five percent.

The downside is emotional pain. The upside is getting laid more. The choice is yours

KaptainKid · 2013-02-04T17:03:27+00:00

Like BeatBoxing_Abe said, just approach and be confident. Introduce yourself to strangers (as your the host and that's polite but it's also an excuse for an easy opener). Mingle with everyone, not just the girls. Carry yourself upright, smile, and just look like you're having and ready to have a good time. People will notice, especially if you're making your way around meeting everyone.

I did this for the first time (talked about it in my last FR) a little while back and it was a complete shocker. It works man. People will be asking who you are.

wildchild11 · 2013-02-05T01:35:37+00:00

Bro,

Throw the parties, go to the parties, whatever. After that, you need to approach. Two things you should focus on.

1) Being flirty 2) Bringing the party and the laughs

Forget about 'game' and running attraction routines / negs. Focus instead on getting people to have fun and spiking girls emotions by teasing them, making them laugh, touching them. FLIRT. Call them 'babe, honey' stuff like that.

CollegeSedditor · 2013-02-06T07:57:27+00:00

I've graduated college but as a manchild I go back often and visit my friends. Follow the other advice but what I've found works is just introducing myself to everyone, man or woman. "Hey, how you doing? Enjoying the party?" Shit like that. If you come across someone cute, strike up a conversation. If not, move on. This is the early night game. Meet people and have fun.

Late night game is after everyone is good and drunk. If you're an alcoholic like me, you've put away 12-15 and are plastered. At this point I still advocate meeting people, but I'm far less gentlemanly about it and more loud and obnoxious. It sounds like shitty advice but it works.

For example, I visited my friends this past weekend. Friday, they threw a party and I just went around talking to everyone. I ended up talking to some girl from another college for a while and making out with her before she had to leave with her brother. Every time she said we shouldn't make out I agreed with her and took the conversation in a different direction until she was like "Fuck it, kiss me now."

Next night, I get hammered at a party running the beer pong table. Once that party was out of alcohol I moved to the next one with my bros. On the way there I saw some girls taking a picture. Me, having moved on to "loud game" yelled "I WANT TO BE IN THE PICTURE" and stumbled over to them. I put my arms around the girls and chatted them up and suggested that one of them follow me to the party. We were at her place less than half an hour later.

Basically, be confident and outgoing and you'll be wildly successful. Find a style that works for you, but if you meet enough girls, some will want to sleep with you.

Title	Advice for (my) College Parties. Thoughts?
Author	PistolPete92
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	February 4, 2013 1:28 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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