What's worked best for me, honestly is just being a better friend to people in general.

If you treat everyone with respect, and a decent amount of admiration, someone you find attractive will gravitate toward your approachability.

But also know your worth, and don't let anyone take advantage of your kindness.

If I really wanna play, I would tell my younger self to be more confident. Don't sell yourself short, you're more attractive than you think. Focus on your hobbies and be professional, it makes you a more interesting person. And don't forget that sense of humor, women love to laugh.

And in-between the sheets, do what comes natural to you, don't be afraid to touch her, she's probably been showing all the signs, if you paid enough attention. Say things that make them feel pretty, and they'll cling to you so hard, you won't be able to get da bitches off ya.

If I had given myself this type of advice in highschool, I wouldn't have regret for all the years wasted, and all the girls after me, that I was oblivious to. I couldn't read the signs, and I thought having game was some special skill.

Being a player, if it's for you, is a skill. But getting laid, not hard at all.