Advice/resources for curing oneitis?

ronmagicjohnson · 2013-04-19T18:46:41+00:00

How do you know she's wild in bed if you've never fucked her

Lucky261 · 2013-04-19T19:37:29+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1cjgpy/recommended_reading_regarding_inner_game/

http://postmasculine.com/why-you-cant-let-her-go

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iT6QxRkjCAQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA

TolarianFapper · 2013-04-19T18:57:28+00:00

Talking to other girls is really the only way to cure it. You'll soon realize that she's not that awesome- you're just projecting qualities onto her.

version2pointoh · 2013-04-19T20:55:49+00:00

Go to ask seddit and read all the other questions exactly like your. Start to realize that you sound exactly like all the other AFCs there. You have this girl on a pedestal. She is not a special snowflake. She's obviously not what everything you want in a girl because you want to get laid and she isn't putting out. Start being awesome on your own and awesome girls will be attracted.

datelikeajerk · 2013-04-20T14:02:23+00:00

Well, there's the kill-or-cure method:

"HB, you're into me, I can tell, and the thing is, I'm really into you. There's something holding us back, though, and that's just not okay with me. If all we can be is friends, that's fine, but right now it's killing my ability to meet other people. I hate to lay ultimatums and everything, but I care too much about you to let my friendship with you turn into something I'll resent you over.

"So, what I need is for us to either be more than friends, or take some time apart. We can start dating, have sex, and see where that leads, or I need to take 30 days and clear my head of being hung up about you. I'll still want to be friends after those 30 days, but I just need that time away from you to clear my head.

"I'm going to be perfectly clear, if we don't start dating/having sex now, we're not going to talk, text, or send smoke signals for 30 days. If you contact me during those 30 days, I'm going to be pretty mean about things and say 'get in my bed or go the fuck away.'

"I know this is a lot to lay on you right now, and feels really harsh, but I owe it to myself and to whatever good things there are between us to make sure I don't wind up resenting you from holding me back from other relationships if we're not going to be anything."

hectex · 2013-04-20T19:21:28+00:00

DELETE HER NUMBER, go out and about and meet new girls, become occupied. Overall, go hang with some girls.

nittutt · 2013-04-20T00:33:42+00:00

Stop thinking she is a catch. She is not. She is just another girl. Any girl out there can be yours, statistically she can't be such a good catch as you project her to be. Stop trying to justify your oneitis. It doesn't need justification, it needs extinction.

Title	Advice/resources for curing oneitis?
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Date	April 19, 2013 6:05 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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