"Endgame" of course on here refers to sleeping with the girl. But the term itself is kind of bullshit because seduction never ends. However I've been having trouble keeping things alive.

Recently I got back into the dating world months after my last relationship ended, but I'm finding a lot of my problems remain. I've hooked up with a lot of women in my life and am no stranger to dating and sex. I've slept with five girls in the last month, and two of those girls I would've liked to have seen regularly, but all communication just dropped off with both of them.

This has inevitably happened to every relationship I've ever had. I hit it off with a girl, can sense she really had a good time and wants to see me again, but after a few days things just change. Sometimes I think it's because I texted too much and smothered her. Other times I think it's because I just didn't reach out to her at all in this time. Both of these might be true.

My dilemma is just not knowing what the fuck is going on here. I know women can lose attraction on a whim, my problem is that this seems to happen a lot to me even after having amazing dates and sex with these women.

I mean it's almost routine at this point: A) Sleep with woman B) Maybe not text for a day or so C) Ask her out again on some date D) She agrees E) Some more waiting F) On the day of she says she can't and doesn't even bother to recommend another time G) End of story pretty much. She gives no indication at this point that she's still interested.

What the fuck?