Age 16, where do I start?

HeIsMyPossum · 2015-06-22T20:45:07+00:00

To be honest, you're a little too young to learn some things on here.

I don't mean that in a degrading way, but a lot of things on here are for people who have fallen behind. I mean you're 16 and you're starting to figure out who you are. A bunch of the "lines" on here won't work. They're written for people who have experienced a little more life.

The best possible things you can do is to learn to love yourself. Confidence is literally 90% of this whole thing. If you spend all your time trying to be what this sub tells you or trying lines on girls, or anything, you'll miss out on developing your own personality.

That's what I wish someone told me at your age.

Just go do some interesting shit. Stay out late with friends, laugh a lot and live life. The more you love you, the more other people will love being around you too.

Attraction begins internally. If you want to grow up into am attractive dude, just learn to be confident. That means knowing who you are and being ok with that for now. The rest will come later.

The guys I knew at 16 who got all the girls were the ones who didn't have to look. They were totally fine on their own and didn't need a girls approval for anything. They were the same no matter who was around. Girls flocked to them. Meanwhile, some guys like me were always trying to impress them and going over the top and repelling them.

Being comfortable in your own skin is seriously 90% of the battle, and hardly ANYONE at 16 feels confident. Everyone was awkward and weird and just learning how to be who they wanted to be.

Figure out who you are, love yourself, and female attention will come later. Don't get in shape or lift to try and please women... Do it so you can feel great and be happy with your body.

Just remember: You can pick and choose a girl, but you can't pick and choose yourself. Spend more time on improving yourself and loving who you are. If you can do that, you will be happy no matter what, which is most important.

Dajoka88 · 2015-06-23T03:21:09+00:00

You start by not reading this sub. Girls your age are not the target demographic of the tips/tools discussed in Seddit; as such, they will not work most of the time. My advice to you is enjoy yourself and building you self-confidence, not just with women but in everything you do. If you can do that it becomes innate and you'll never have a problem talking to women.

JDawgSabronas · 2015-06-22T18:36:52+00:00

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Title	Age 16, where do I start?
Author	casanovva
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	June 22, 2015 6:29 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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