This is purely out of curiosity as I don't have my own place in a tourist destination or anything, but has anyone here banged their 'guests'. If so, how did it happen? Be detailed.

I find that in clubs after approaching a girl, or on an actual date, it's just easier to be 'flirty. If you approach a girl in a bar, she knows you're into her, and if you're on a date, then well....yeah.

But in situations where no sexual element is implied (such as a houseguest or whatever) but you like the girl, I struggle even more.

I failed miserably in a similar situation when trying to hookup with a family friend who was staying with me for a few days, and I just didn't have a clue what to do.

I was showing lots of interest and asking her questions about herself, I was trying to be fun and tease her about things (although I often couldn't find anything to tease her about so it remained a bit serious)

I just never got too a point with her where it felt OK to physically escalate and couldn't seem to find the right things to say in order to show sexual interest and be flirty which just seem to come more naturally to me in different environments.

Like, In a bar, I might think ''She's still talking to me and ignoring her friends. That's good. Start kino?'', but in your own house, then it's natural that she'll be willing to sit and talk/listen to you etc.

I dunno - I'd like to hear your stories. Be as detailed as possible in terms of conversations and teasing and anything else you feel relevant to making the switch from guy letting you stay at their place to a hookup