Here are some tips and is really all you need to apply to be great at meeting women during the day.

  • Show intent right from your opener. During the day she is going to wonder WTF you want when you approach her. Are you a salesman, homeless person, do you want her to sign some lame petition? You need to be very clear in what you are doing and why you are doing it so she knows 'what to do with that'. Saying Hi I thought you were cute and I wanted to say Hi. I'm ___ Is my staple opener during the day. It doesn't even need to be so direct in nature, you can even just say 'Hi. I wanted to meet you, my name is ____' As long as she knows what you are doing she can begin to feel comfortable.

  • You need to show empathy right after the opener, and keep calibrating it until she feels relaxed enough to hook and keep talking to you. This is absolutely key. By saying 'Look, I know this is totally random meeting someone like this.' Shows to her that YOU know what you are doing is outside the norm, and will relax her. She can't begin to feel attracted or interested in you if she is wondering if you are some crazy guy that has potentially bad intentions. It helps fit your approach into her model of reality and makes it seem normal to her.

Some other lines which are good to use: Sorry for interrupting you.. Don't let me stop you from going where you're going.. you probably have a busier day than me anyway.

  • Instadate as soon as possible. This is really important once you have hooked her. Normal people don't spend 20 minutes talking to each other on the street. The only time she will do that is when she's being approached by a pick up artist.. and the longer she stands there the weirder it's going to get. Move her as soon as you can, even if it's only a few feet away to sit down, then TELL her what you guys are going to do next with a time constraint. 'I have ten minutes for you now for coffee, then I'm meeting my friends. Let's go.' Do not ASK her if she wants to go shopping with you, get food, coffee or sit on a bench with you, she will think about it for a moment and give you some weak excuse not to, even if she really likes you.

  • Screen for logistics and play to win. If your interaction is going well on the instant date, there is absolutely no reason for why it needs to end after an hour if your logistics are good. Keep the ball rolling, keep leading. Don't just settle for a phone number, in fact I would suggest you don't ask for the number at all if the set is going kind of well. Use the number as leverage to keep the interaction moving towards the pull today. You can even tell her the girl 'No. I don't do numbers.' and now she has the fear of loss to either keep seeing you now or risking the chance of never seeing you again.

When I was at a high beginner to intermediate level I would sometimes go 4 or 5 instant dates a week but I never pushed for anything more than that. Even the interactions which seemed to go really well would flake even if our emotional connection was good and we liked each other. The reason why is that girls are simply too busy to meet someone new most of the time. It's not because you aren't cool or attractive enough, it's because you didn't make it happen on the same day they met you. Guys take the number because they think it's a safe and reliable way to get the girl in the future, and it's not really true if you live in a large city where she has tons of options and things move quickly. Another reason for why pulling on the same day is actually easier is that her peak emotional experience of you is going to be on the first day you meet. Why does a salesman push for the sale so hard on the first meeting? Because they know that when the customer goes home and needs to 'Think about it', they they are no longer in a buying frame of mind, they shift back into a logical gear and play it safe by not purchasing.. even if the product really is the perfect fit for them. Don't be afraid of closing hard if you know that you are a great choice for her, you can make it like she's in a movie and can have one of the most romantic and memorable experiences of her life by being pulled by you during the day time.