Alpha Male -
Has access to ubiquitous sex (ever present and always available)
Cocky & funny masculine personality (DeAngelo)
Situational & free association elements utilized to demonstrate masculine personality including teasing and other M + F dynamic play (Mehow)
Flirtatious and always physically escalating
Inner locus of control and is unattached to the outcome
Accepts responsibility for escalating the interaction to and through sex
Plays in and spikes uncertainty with playful teasing and playfully breaks rapport (James Amoreaux)
Teases bad behavior and redirects his focus rather than getting upset about it
Understands that beauty is common and does not project virtue on the girl unearned (ie knows that beauty is not earned virtue)
Understands that sex is the beginning of a relationship and that his emotional & financial attachment is earned through physicality and not before it
Makes sure he stays in the girl’s alpha rotation and avoids orbiting if dating a Western girl (he is the girl she has sex with and not the guy she complains to aka ‘friend’)
Is able to be successful with both Eastern & Western dating models and knows when to employ the different models (calibration)
Doesn’t apologize for his sexuality and has sexual confidence (La Ruina)
Owns his intentions (James Amoreaux)
Knows that going on expensive interview-like dates establishes the wrong frame for a sexualized interaction and designs logistics to set himself up for success (ie pull to SNS or D2S)
Knows that a woman is not the purpose of his existence
Has the ability to pull to SNS or D2S as a capability
Beta Male -
Passive sexually and does not take the initiative to create physical abundance in his lovelife (scarcity)
The anti-masculine personality
Outward dependent (attached to the outcome of exclusivity with a girl)
Relies on the female to initiate physicality
Uncomfortable with uncertainty and is thus certainty seeking in male female dynamics
Reactive to bad behavior and responds with upset
Needy & approval seeking with women
Rapport seeking with women rather than playfully breaking rapport
Believes that being nice is all you need with women
Taught to be nice and not to "upset" women when the reality is that women love sex and are not offended by sexual masculinity, they are addicted to it (nice guy syndrome)
Oneitis, gets attached to women he has not had sex with
Becomes an orbiter with women, providing emotional and financial validation to a girl with no physicality in return (friend zone)
Tries to impose an Eastern dating model on Western women
Buys women things before sex (includes paying for expensive dates)
Is ashamed of his sexuality
Thinks he needs to go on multiple dates before being sexual with a girl
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