Alright I've done it, I've got a girlfriend. Now how do I keep up the attraction?

PasDeDeux · 2011-07-16T16:48:03+00:00

This is why we work on inner game/lifestyle as much as we do the other stuff. Keeping a girlfriend is about staying interesting, making sure you are confident enough that you can put your foot down if she tries to walk on you, subtly/implicitly hinting that you had other options, but you chose her (do not do that explicitly IMO). Basically, stay cool and she should stay with you. Let her know if something isn't working. I'm gonna assume you have all the above covered--congrats on your relationship!

Proxify · 2011-07-16T09:54:29+00:00

Basically you have to pull a variation of the game (the part of it I'm good in ironically). Just keep the attraction going almost the same way you would try to build attraction normally, but in this case you already have permission to kino all you need, and feel it's appropriate. From time to time, use FTCs and you know, have fun and enjoy, just don't forget the basics of the game and you'll have a long, healthy relationship (if that's what you want haha)

boyfrienddestroyers · 2011-07-16T13:31:52+00:00

Maintain buying temperature! Don't allow her to get gold.

*cold

TheEngDude · 2011-07-16T17:39:21+00:00

Here's the mindset I like to take. Now, instead of chasing multiple women to keep you from being overly dependent on one person, chase multiple life goals. Yes, you should always be doing this but presumably you were putting a lot of time into going out and going on dates with girls before so now you should have more time to put towards dreams.

Be a high status person and continue to surprise her with how motivated you are and what you can achieve. Having lots of energy and passion is contagious and will get others around you sucked into all these good feelings.

2011-07-23T15:26:59+00:00

Yea, don't put the relationship dynamics in terms of game. Be yourself, but don't lose the qualities that made you attractive in the first place.

Title	Alright I've done it, I've got a girlfriend. Now how do I keep up the attraction?
Author	MaYAL_terEgo
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	July 16, 2011 9:27 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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