I understand the importance of "always assuming attraction". The concept behind this is you are more likely to be successful, if you believe in and embrace success.
Yesterday I saw a really cute and hot girl walking towards me (i.e. opposite direction) with her girlfriend, however I was not bold enough to step in front of her and ask for her number or at least express somehow that I was into her. I also know I have to step out of my comfort zone, but stopping an unknown girl (especially if she's not alone) on the street.... I just couldn't do it. I also observed my feelings that moment: 1. It would be really awkward and intimidating to stop them and tell her something nice (ask her number) 2. She is so hot... that even if I stepped in front of her, I'd get rejected; she either has a boyfriend or she doesn't find me attractive enough.
Any thoughts on this?
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