Am I missing something here?

DaygameCode · 2025-03-16T02:34:28+00:00

Getting numbers in the night is mostly pointless because women don’t really feel excited about seeing a guy they met at a bar or nightclub. Their mindset is more like what happens in the night stays in the night. Everything that needs to happen has to happen that same night, not some other day.

If you didn’t make out with them and take them to your house to have sex that same night you met them, then the number is pointless. They most likely gave the number to 10 other guys before you even saw her that night or after you left.

You may think that saying “hey I’m mike (or whatever name you have)” might ring a bell to them, but maybe you are “mike number 4” or maybe they don’t even remember your face or don’t recognize any Mike at all.

Basically what you need to understand is that while for you getting a number feels like a big victory, for women giving the number at night is just the usual routine every time they go out. It’s not a commitment or a promise with you.

The only reason they give the number is because it’s easy enough to give it and end the conversation than having to come up with an excuse not to give it or having to deal with the potential tensión that arises from a rejection.

This is a behaviour that you won’t be able to change form women. They simply will give you a number not because they are interested in seeing you again, but because they can always block or ignore you later so there is no drama or tension in that moment at the bar.

So, if you wanna do nightgame. Forget numbers and aim to kiss them and take them home that same night. A number only means you won’t see her again.

Women simply don’t like having to say to their female friends “who is that guy you talking to?” “I don’t know i think it was one of the random dudes that approached me in some bar, i can’t really remember”. They mostly don’t like the idea of it at all. The way it sounds to them makes them feel awful, as if they are literally entertaining some random dude who was probably just another horny guy,… i know because my sister and her female friends talk about their experiences.

Dorsiflexionkey · 2025-03-16T02:52:39+00:00

You're missing a lot of info about yourself we can't make many judgements for you. Are you handsome, tall, rich whatever (objective standards).

Lets assume you're a 6-7/10. I'm gonna say it's mostly likely you lack game. Unless you're like an 8-9 you have to work pretty hard to get the skills to pull women, not to mention like the other guy said it's hard to carry on that flame outside of the bar. So it's not entirely your fault. Other than that we don't have much else to go on..

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-03-16T06:10:42+00:00

Not enough investment from their side.

Strangers are cheap commodity. They are everywhere.

Unless u make some kinda connection with her. She will flake, because going out with someone she just met especially when she was intoxicated has very poor risk/reward ratio.

Simple economics, my friend.

That’s why guys who do night game always try to pull girls same night. When emotions are still high.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-03-16T06:39:05+00:00

You're just doing this in the wrong context. If you want to collect numbers and go on dates, you have to do daygame. See my post on daygame for that.

There is no day 2 on nightgame. You either pull that same night or you can forget it. See my post on nightgame on how to do that.

Title	Am I missing something here?
Author	Opposite-Gas2525
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	March 16, 2025 12:03 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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