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[–][deleted] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]tractorinballs 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would suggest learning punctuation, it will make you more desirable to the other members of the human race that are allowing you to remain on this planet.
[–]Rosepott 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! Lol this was a big run-on paragraph. Kind of says a lot about a person.
[–]SnapSocialGuru 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"They say they just want to be friends" = they don't find you attractive. If this is a consistent theme, then yeah, you actually do have some changing to do.
Also, if you're consistently blocking chicks because they don't find you sexually appealing, then that too subcommunicates a lot.
You've got to relax and take it all as a joke. Have more fun with it. You say you aren't taking it personal but you're tone says otherwise
[–]Admirable_One6045 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your right man maybe it affects me but it’s not as bad I’m not getting hurt over I don’t stop trying but appreciate it
[–]Revolutionary-Lab-10 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You say you don’t take it personally but then admit you block them after getting rejected - that kind of reaction tells me (and the women) that you DO take it personally and have a hard time being told no. I think it’s fine to ignore them if they start playing games but save the blocking for an egregious offense, like ghosting or flaking on dates.
[–]Admirable_One6045 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your right it affects me but it isn’t that bad, if I get rejected I can go out again and try again my ego doesn’t accept being told no, I just find no point of staying friends with a girl after there’s no point.
[–]Revolutionary-Lab-10 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You keep making excuses for your behavior. You admit I'm right but in the same sentence downplay things by saying it isn't that bad. You're willing to try again AFTER you get rejected by someone and block them because you can't handle a bruised ego. My point is that you have the wrong mindset and will struggle with women until you learn to stop going nuclear just because someone doesn't want to date/fuck you at that moment. Attraction with men is usually a 1 or a 0 - you like her or you don't. But for women attraction is more of a dynamic scale; think of a volume knob on a stereo system.
[–]KingRemu 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Never become friends with a girl that has rejected you/friendzoned you, it's not healthy for you. If you're the one friendzoning her then sure. Although it might be somewhat of a dick move it's a good way to expand your social circle.
Thank you man I knew I wasn’t wrong for feeling this way.
[–]causeNo 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Since the punctuation was already mentioned.. (but for real dude, people are generous still answering such a mess. Use punctuation!).
Aaaaanyway. Regarding your main question: No, I don't think you're an asshole for managing your time. You should have some female friends, too. But you can't keep everyone around who wasn't interested in you. Ain't nobody got time for that.
Lol I was in a rush but yes that was my point I’m a straight up dude I have a couple female friends already if you don’t want anything to do with me why waste my time.
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