Anchoring(NLP)

frogma · 2011-04-05T14:37:55+00:00

NLP works. Think about it this way: A girl leaves a shirt at your place. You're gonna associate the shirt with the girl. Every time. Hell, I have various roommates' clothing still, and every time I wear something of theirs I think of em.

It works the same way with basically any other item. Give a girl a pen and she's likely to remember you every time she sees that pen. Will it make a noticeable difference? It actually might, especially if you hint at the fact: like "Here's something to remember me by." I've never purposely done it, but I've done it, and I'm assuming it works because it just makes logical sense. Like when you smell cookies, you might think of your grandma. That's basically NLP.

Edit: And inside jokes basically work the same way. When you have an inside joke with someone, they associate that joke with you and you alone. Which is part of the reason why, after a date, it's good to text later and comment on something you talked about- they associate the good experience with you and they associate you with good experiences. It's just how memory works.

And we all use anchoring. It's instinct. Do you ever fold your arms or put your hands in your pockets when you feel uncomfortable? There you go. I also have some friends who make distinct facial expressions sometimes- I associate the expression with the friend. Even if someone else makes the expression, it reminds me of my friend.

TofuTofu · 2011-04-05T05:58:01+00:00

I am very intrigued about NLP but I don't have the patience to learn it.

I've seen some basic NLP that good comedians do naturally. They make a certain facial expression or let out a laugh at just the right time to cause the desired reaction from the audience (in their case, roaring laughter/applause). Chris Rock is really good at this.

I think there is something of substance to it, but it seems like my time could be better spent on other things.

Nexism · 2011-04-06T02:37:25+00:00

Anchoring is insanely advanced, up to the stage you can rig an elbow touch to laugher when it's quiet, or her getting wet when you touch her thigh.

You're much better off focusing on other PUA stuff.

bangthemermaid · 2011-04-06T10:54:42+00:00

relevant!

oldDudePua · 2011-04-05T05:46:28+00:00

Works like this: "Oh I am an omnipotent wizard who can turn you on!" Who buys that? Idiots. Wanna fuck an idiot? go for it.

Title	Anchoring(NLP)
Author	Somnivore
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	April 5, 2011 5:39 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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