My whole life I grew up the fat kid, never really paying much attention to game or anything like that. Despite this i had little girlfriends in middle school, and dated couple girls in high school. What im trying to get at is I don’t have a history of this kind of thing. Im a sophomore in college now, and I’ve hit the gym and lost a ton of weight and turned into an above average looking guy. Within the past 9 months, though, any chance I’ve had to be with a girl sexually I’ve avoided it out of anxiety, but not normal anxiety. Basically, as soon as a girl starts making advances towards me (even if we’ve been flirting all night and I know shes into me) I sort of shut down and lose interest, which isn’t like me and honestly makes me feel like an outcast. I should be horny as hell trying to fuck right?

Has anybody else had experiences like this?

Even if not, how should I go about fixing it?