Anyone else here stutter?

Fizzicle · 2013-04-26T02:42:25+00:00

I've had problems with a bit of a stutter/slur here and there, and what usually helps me best is to slow my speech down to a pace where I can think about words before I say them.

2013-04-26T02:31:29+00:00

just do you man if a girl isn't interested bc of something so minuscule as a stutter, she's not worth ur time

MewsClues · 2013-04-26T05:52:18+00:00

I have a natural stutter that varies from crippling to unnoticeable, variable on fatigue, stress, sobriety, anxiety, nerves and some days my tongue just refuses to cooperate just because it wants to.

When I was a kid I was taught a few techniques; Exaggerated enunciation of words with strong mouth movement will you limit your stutter, and try to start a troublesome syllable on a strong breath outwards. Don't be afraid to pause mid sentence to take a breath.

A side note, because my stutter is almost always around I've expanded my vocabulary to avoid certain syllables and sounds. It helps, but there's only so many synonyms to be learned before people start looking at your funny. Can also get you in trouble, for example I often substituted 'female for 'woman', which has different connotations. I now use 'lady' or 'girl' instead. Damn that W.

Lastly, if it's persistent then own it. Turn it around and claim nerves around beautiful woman always does this to you etc

nolanisbord · 2013-04-26T06:14:44+00:00

i found that this video was the best help with my stutter, enjoy :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE

new_player · 2013-04-26T11:51:07+00:00

Slow down your speech to the point where you feel like you're talking a tad bit too slow. In reality, that speed is the right one. What has helped me a lot is actually sitting down and recording myself speaking. Hands down the easiest way to make adjustments.

2013-04-26T03:56:57+00:00

I used to stutter A LOT, especially when I started because I was very nervous.

It will go away in time, stuttering is one of those things that if you do not worry about it, it will almost always go away.

Talk slow, deep breath, relax.

cajungator3 · 2013-04-27T01:06:51+00:00

I have a stutter also. It seemed to attract girls instead of pushing them away. It is my curse and it is my gift.

new_player · 2013-04-28T12:56:33+00:00

You have the ability to identify when it's going to happen before it happens? That's pretty useful, and can actually give you a moment to slow the conversation down.

Which is pretty fucking crucial in building sexual tension through conversation actually. Just ... slow down the conversation. Introduce pauses while looking at her intensely.

itsashleybro · 2013-05-02T21:43:34+00:00

I'd honestly probably find it endearing.

Title	Anyone else here stutter?
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Date	April 26, 2013 2:23 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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