Hey there!

So I’ve recently read Mark Manson’s Models, i’m working on myself and aside from pursuing a career change I’ve got a good job going for me. There’s very few women I’m actually attracted to, but I’ve noticed a trend that everyone, not just the women I’m interested in, are in an utterly foul mood all the time that makes them extremely unapproachable. I’m pretty sociable and emotionally intelligent since my job demands it to perform well, I can navigate conversations just fine I’m not struggling with that.

I’m asking how the more experienced people here would respectfully approach women they’re interested in but don’t look like they’re particularly approachable? Approaching and getting that to become an actual conversation instead of getting reaction like I kicked their dog on the way to their parents’ funeral would be a great help

Thanks

Oh, also 5’9, traditionally attractive face, symmetrical masculine features, dark hair, white American guy, well dressed but nerdy