Approaching

smoothmax · 2019-08-16T19:54:05+00:00

Can you "approach" a guy who's doing road repairs and say, "Hot day!" and then banter with him, with stuff like, but hey at least it's a classy neighborhood. Or the girl at Starbucks, what's the most bizarre name you ever had to write on a cup. If you can do that with ease then approaching hot girls is a barely noticeable step up. In fact start the banter with your mum or your roommates in the morning ... a train once it builds up momentum is pretty hard to stop.

Captain_w00t · 2019-08-16T20:28:45+00:00

Approaching and thinking are mutually exclusive.

To approach you need to stop thinking. Otherwise your brain will try anything it can to stop you and keep you in the comfort zone.

vickmasters · 2019-08-16T23:19:48+00:00

That's natural.

What's not natural, what's completely insane, what's super fucking cool, is if you actually went up to her and said hi, despite everyone one around you.

Even if she rejects you, you can walk away feeling REALLY good about yourself, that you made an attempt to better her life and yours when 99% of men in that situation wouldn't have had the balls to do what you just did ;)

Title	Approaching
Author	ayadk2336
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	August 16, 2019 5:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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