are most girls generally passive?

the_whitebrony · 2022-02-16T19:53:51+00:00

It wasn't too bad ? Wtf is she gonna say at your wedding?

priest: Do you take this man.

her: Eh sure why not.

curi · 2015-04-21T21:31:03+00:00

i texted this girl the next day- "i had a good time!" she answered: "it wasn't too bad!" this was the first girl to ever say that haha, any thoughts?

you wrote, "i feel so lucky to be with you" and she wrote back "hold up, you still have to earn me".

that is not the dynamic you want. don't be a needy bitch with no self-esteem, who is nervous about every text. you'll lose her if you keep that up.

and no in dating everything is not equal and fair and balanced and a two-way street. gender roles exist and most people mostly follow them. if she's acting female, try acting male...! if you both acted ungendered, you'd have bad sex anyway.

PS whoever downvoted this is mean, wtf man. very legit and standard question, it's good that he posted and asked for help.

JefemanG · 2015-04-21T18:22:17+00:00

It depends on the girl. Some text first and initiate first, some don't. It's just like approaching. It's generally accepted the guy will approach first, but sometimes the female will approach first instead.

With setting up dates, girls love men who take charge and are assertive. In many cases, they want badly to hang out, but they have 2 problems. 1 is they don't want to seem clingy or annoy you. 2 is they want you to do to show you can be the go-getter in the relationship.

Of course, it goes far deeper than this, and many factors play a role, but this is the "short and sweet" version of it.

Another reason she may be acting the she does (and I get this vibe from the second half of your post) is that you feel a bit insecure and she's placing her value ahead of yours in the relationship. No problem texting her later after you have sex, but her response and how you presented this post leads me to believe she has hang-ups about you.

hiefa · 2015-04-21T18:29:35+00:00

I dont know about that last part of your comment. Im a girl, and girls dont usually like to commit things like that to writing (the world we live in lol) also girls are more often than not encouraged to think that if they enjoy or talk about sex too much then they risk being called a slut.

Look deep into her eyes brush her hair away with the back of your hand and tell her how much you enjoyed the night with her. You'll most likely get a more honest response than over text which imho is lacking as you can't determine tone of voice or facial expressions.

Title	are most girls generally passive?
Author	adiktif
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	April 21, 2015 5:36 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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