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[–]seduction-ModTeam[M] [score hidden] 3 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]EmrysAllen 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why do you keep posting the same questions? Are you just looking for someone to say "nope she sounds great!"?
[+]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -16 points-15 points-14 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
because she is a good girl and treats me great im sick of these reddit people telling me otherwise maybe they are jealous
[–]EmrysAllen 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually sounds like you are perfect for each other. Good luck!
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if she is trash then why did she have a boyfriend who was good looking before me?
[–]FarComplaint2974 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Run. She's trash
[+]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -13 points-12 points-11 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
but she treats me good and gives me sex
[–]FarComplaint2974 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She's trash and you're a Simp
[+]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Pankipuks123 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ikr?
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how ?
[–]Pankipuks123 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude you’re the backup plan. Open your eyes dumbass
[–]cangero0 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP is trolling
[–]AssistTemporary8422 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Told her ex was abusive/narcissist on the first date
No, some people just share a lot on dates, but if she takes it too far then its a red flag.
Constant sexual selfies on instagram, in her underwear/wearing nothing
Yes this is a red flag!
Highly promiscuousness past and tonnes of past flings/boyfriends
Another red flag!
Her friends are girls who go drinking/partying and have only fans
Red flag!
Deep hatred towards men
More red flags than a Communist parade!
Troubled relationship with father
Lots of great people have dad problems. Really depends on what she says about it.
what will happen if i have a relationship with her?
You will be the next ex she is bashing to her date. If you want something casual and non-committal okay, but she is not relationship material.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
but how come a good looking guy before me was her boyfriend?
[–]AssistTemporary8422 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because women like good looking guys?
[–]jmaman 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
She is a slut. Meaning reduced likelihood of pair bonding, increased likelihood of cheating, increased likelihood of crazy/jealous shit. Also implies certain general personality traits, dispositions, and political views. On the flip side, probably great sex and is a fun person.
I personally would never date a woman like that, nor touch her with a ten foot pole. However, plenty of men do, and many seem to be satisfied.
The mistake would be going into the relationship believing she will ever truly abandon her slutty ways. One cannot turn a hoe into a housewife.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
you sound like a slut shamer
[–]jmaman -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Yes, I am.
The ‘red flags’ (although I object to the term) you mentioned in your post all relate to her being a slut/feminist. You asked if you should date her or not. I gave you the realistic pros and cons. If you believe that assessment suggests she is somehow shameful, it says more than enough about what you think of her.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
A womens past is the past ,you sound jealous
[–]jmaman 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
If you truly believe these things, perhaps you should just suck it up and date her. You’ll learn, one way or the other, about the validity of your beliefs.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
if she was so bad why did she have a boyfriend who was good looking before me for a few months?
[–]jmaman 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why did their relationship end after a few months?
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
he broke up with her but the guys is real good looking so she must be decent
[–]jmaman 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay, so a guy she claims to be narcissistic and abusive dumped her. Translation: he saw she was a slut, made some emotional promises to have sex with her, fucked her for a while, then left. Why do you think he left?
[–]CaptainSaveBPD[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how come she has had a lot of boyfreinds then
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why are you so obsessed with her good looking ex boyfriend? Why do you think he’s good looking? Why are you looking at him that way? You’re weirder than you sound.
how does that make me weird? what a strange comment
Im saying she msut be decent if good looking men date her
[–]bigplaneboeing737 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hit and quit material.
[–]userisauser 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is dating, not seduction.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh keep it casual and fuck and the truth will be exposed
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