Men, you have been told that if a woman smiles at you, that's she's interested. Well, some women smile and have no interest in you and others keep a straight face (sometimes roll their eyes at you), but have the biggest crush on you.

Everyone is different and some women didn't get "the memo" on how to show men that you're interested in them.

So why am I telling you this? Because you may be letting good opportunities pass you by because a woman is not giving you obvious signals and you're looking for women who are smiling at you or playing with their hair.

Does she stutter when she talks to you, but cool, calm, and collected around other people?

Does she stare at you, you smile at her, she doesn't smile back, but she's still staring at you?

Does she tease you or imitate you?

Do her friends try to extract information from you? (Do you have a girlfriend/wife? What's your name?, etc)

These are just a few but sometimes it's so subtle that you may miss it and take it as her not liking you.

We get so stuck in your heads that we miss these subtleties. Open up your awareness. When you open up your awareness, you can spot these subtleties while everyone else is missing them completely.

By opening your awareness, you'll notice certain patterns you didn't pick up on before. There may be a girl who times when you go on break and happens to place herself in your field of view to increase her chances of you talking to her.

By opening your awareness, you'll notice that some women act serious and sophisticated around other people, but they act girly and giggle when they're with you.

I was watching a YouTube video with a guy by the name of Brian Begin. He talks about "Stepping Into Tension" and "Getting Into Your Body". When a man finds comfort in that tension with women, he becomes very attractive to these women.

There's something I like to do when I'm at work or just out and about. I look around the room and see if there are any women giving me any subtle signs. I'm not thinking "she's out of my league". I'm not thinking, "she's way too hot to be interested in me". Instead, I'm looking for signs. I'm not thinking about myself. I'm paying attention to her. I'm aware of myself, but I'm not stuck in my head. I'm in my body. I'm taking in my environment.

Practice giving eye contact even if it makes you uncomfortable. The more you do it, the more comfort you'll start to get looking people in the eye.

Make a game out of it. When you're out and about, try to hold eye contact with different women. Work your way up to 5 seconds. That's an eternity in the "eye contact world". You're not trying to get these women, you're just trying to build comfort in the tension.

Your eye contact should be like you're looking at a beautiful piece of art. This will soften your gaze so you won't have an intense look when you're giving eye contact. An intense stare will scare women off. If you notice that a woman is staring back at you, smile. If she smiles back, approach. If she doesn't smile back, but she's still staring at you, approach.