Asking a girl on a date

napsandsnacks · 2015-10-16T22:13:45+00:00

unless you got friend zoned already, make a joke about it. escalate so she knows your intentions. could say something like "didnt realize you need a warm up for our date". you'll know whether or not to eject just because she is either toxic or not interested

M7782 · 2015-10-16T22:14:04+00:00

Move on to the next target of opportunity. For future reference always have a plan ahead of time, tell her that you are going to a certain restaurant, bar, coffee shop, ect and if she would be interested in joining you.

JakeApproaches · 2015-10-16T23:29:55+00:00

Have a 1-10 minute conversation first. What if you don't find each other interesting?

Beli_Mawrr · 2015-10-16T23:57:05+00:00

In the future, I find it's much more effective to ask "When are you free" then try to bumble through her schedule or guess a time that she's free. It may not be quite as forceful as saying "let's go out at xyz time on xyz day" but it'll definitely open your options up a lot more. Also, do not get offended or discouraged when you hear she's going out with someone else. You're here on R/Seduction so my guess is you're already better than most men. You're dating other women, why shouldn't she be able to?

Mars8 · 2015-10-17T04:34:01+00:00

She rejected you. She knew what you were infering and made something up to seem unavailable. If you still want her, don't give her too much attention, strike up conversations with other women when she's around to show that you have options.

showmewhatyougot1234 · 2015-10-17T18:11:21+00:00

Don't take this as an immediate rejection unless its clear prior that you are friends. Girls are allowed to go on dates & often do so just to meet new people. So don't freak out if youre the jealous type like I am because it doesn't mean shes going to bang. She is being honest with you and I've had girls tell me that they are going on a date but then a week later I've closed.

Best strategy: disregard it and ask her out spontaneous "what do you have planned this weekend" on like a saturday morning. If her schedule is empty, suggest meeting up for something at a certain time and see what she says. This will give you a definitive answer and prevent confusion

Title	Asking a girl on a date
Author	NewbieSeduction
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	October 16, 2015 9:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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