Attractive guy with no game

JustCallMeHubz · 2017-08-10T02:33:55+00:00

Your first sentence literally addressed the problem.

Personally, texting isn't a big part of my game. If anything, being disconnect from conversations on your phone helps as well. My tip is to turn off your notifications for texting, snapchat, insta, etc.

As for the literal, conversation game. Well, you really just need to work on your social skills with attractive women in general. When you're conversing, become relaxed, focus on your breathing and how you're saying things. Not exactly with what you're saying, since it will come naturally when you're relaxed with yourself.

You can be pretty average at conversation and still pull bro.

christmaswarmth · 2017-08-10T04:02:14+00:00

Read Models by Mark Manson. You've got a lot of insecurities you need addressing judging from the post.

PDX_Relationshipnerd · 2017-08-10T07:20:51+00:00

What in the fuck am I doing wrong?

This question sums up your entire problem with women. You're focused on what you're doing wrong. You don't know what you're doing right, if anything at all. You don't seem to have too much direction. You call yourself "attractive" but there are a ton of attractive guys in this world that can offer more than just a pretty face. Let's not forget the FUCK in the middle of that question, you're frustrated, and being frustrated doesn't help anyone achieve their goals.

What should you do? Pick up a book, there are tons out there. Models by Mark Manson is a good one, hell even The Game could work for you (PUAs are not "in" anymore, the book is a bit dated, but there are things in there to give you direction).

Educate yourself on inner game. Sounds like that's the big issue for you. The key to becoming better is to learn, then practice. PRACTICE. So many guys don't. They make excuses as to why they aren't approaching or doing the things they need to practice to get better. Don't be like that.

chaosandmayhem · 2017-08-10T04:06:16+00:00

It sounds like a mindset issue. You don't have the reference experiences to create a sense of entitlement, so you don't feel entitled to attractive women.

Seriously, what are your core beliefs about women and dating?

immenseimme · 2017-08-10T20:09:40+00:00

Work on your inner game, and then on your conversation skills and general game. Also, read Models if you haven't yet.

pick-up-on-this · 2017-08-11T16:21:58+00:00

My texting and in person game sucks.

Thats...the only two kinds of game dude! Lol, just stop thinking so much. These girls clearly want you to come and talk to them. Chances are they will be nervous and awkward as fuck, all you have to do is stand there and be LESS AWKWARD. Shouldnt be hard if you are attractive and getting the looks you mention.

Title	Attractive guy with no game
Author	its_aa_trap
Upvotes	14
Comments	9
Date	August 10, 2017 1:24 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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