Avoid “Event” Dates

midnight_toker22 · 2017-11-02T21:35:30+00:00

This is so flawed I don’t even know where to begin.

Maybe with the assumption that anything other than a quick, cheap date means you are a provider and therefore “a beta” who will never have sex with a girl before she bounces.

There’s plenty of “event dates” you can do that are cheap, and in no way do they preclude you from getting laid at the end.

In fact, traveling down the well-worn paths of “walk in the park” or “quick cup of coffee” is a surefire way to not stand out from all the other boring guys who can’t come up with a fun, unique date idea to save his life.

Not that there’s anything wrong with those things, I’m not saying they’re not guaranteed to doom you to failure. But in my experience, I’ve had much more success when I have creative, interesting date ideas than when it’s same tired old shit they’ve done with dozens of other guys.

Stand out from the crowd, gentlemen. Be memorable.

Edit: one thing I will give him credit for is the assertion that once a women sees you as a “provider” (aka a guy with long term dating potential) as opposed to just a quick fuck (with no dating potential) then you will be held to higher standards. But he’s wrong that going on a dinner/event date invariably means that you are a provider. Also wrong that provider = beta.

rmbarnes · 2017-11-03T12:40:27+00:00

I sometimes think the whole provider / lover thing is taken too far, bet when I think of my own experiences and those of highly successful womanisers it does ring true.

I'd say this article makes a good point.

Title	Avoid “Event” Dates
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Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	November 2, 2017 8:33 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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