If you search for the words 'alpha male’ for man, you will find

The Myth of the Alpha Male, Coaching the Alpha Male, 9 Powerful Alpha Male Traits You MUST Develop to Be at your best.

But how can everybody be an alpha male if according to Wikipedia “the highest ranking individual is sometimes designated as the alpha” and what does it have to do with seduction?

The alpha male shares the same trick as the peacock for seduction.

The only way to understand the trick is to drive deep in the mind of women but as we can’t do with any machine so why not study one aspect of psychology to understand what makes the alpha male so seductive.

To understand the ‘alpha male’ strength in seduction, we need to understand the term “signal”

The best animal that we could use to understand is a peacock.

The peacock shows a colorful tail to the female in order to seduce her but does the female really see beauty or is it something else?

The main need for animals to reproduce is to pass on genes.

The better the genes, the more the species survive in the next generation.

As animals have no laboratory to verify the male genes, the only way for the female to judge the male is by the “signal” the male shows.

Cause any male could tell with their cry that he has the best gene without invest any resource that why the tail is the way they judge the genes.

The female judges the genes by looking at how healthy the male tail or “train” as Wikipedia names it.

If we consider that tail in a survival aspect, that tail is a huge disadvantage for the peacock whatever it is to survive from predators and resources as food to maintain the tail healthy.

Notice that the signal is valid to the female because it costs a huge amount of resources to maintain and puts the peacock in a handicap state to survive predators.

The cost requested to maintain the tails show to the female that the peacock have the genes need to survive and find food to keep that tails healthy

The same principle applies to animals as lions or wolves which alpha male ranking come from but instead of having colorful tails, the male signals his genes by fighting to be the alpha which shows that they can protect the female and the strength to win in any fight.

Something to notice is that the female is the spectator and judge in all this because it is the only way to identify which male will have the best genes to pass on to the next generation.

Girls and women are surely not animals but they are humans as you and me.

The concept of “signal” can be applied to a first impression for the 5 first seconds or for a long time frame to mental image for humans as it’s the only way that humans can form a mental image of someone.

Now let's see our example,

In his book “MODELS” Mark Manson write:

“If you look at romance novels — basically the female version of porn — they all follow more or less the exact same pattern: hard and rugged bad-boy type male hero is troubled but strong, and as he slowly opens up and shares his true emotions and desires with the heroine, she’s able to support him, to save him and ultimately fall in love with him. Of course, they live happily ever after.

This is more or less the blueprint of seduction”

Following this as a guideline, one novel book which can be helpful is “50 shades of grey”,

Even if Critical has tended towards the negative, with the quality of its prose generally seen as poor.

The first, titled Fifty Shades of Grey, was released as an e-book and a print on demand paperback in May 2011 by The Writers' Coffee Shop, a virtual publisher based in Australia.

Fifty Shades of Grey has topped best-seller lists around the world, selling over 125 million copies worldwide by June 2015. It has been translated into 52 languages, and set a record in the United Kingdom as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.

Fifty Shades is an American film trilogy series that consists of three erotic romantic drama films, based on the Fifty Shades trilogy by English author E. L. James with a budget: Total (3 films): $150 million for a Box office: Total (3 films): $1.325 billion.

The Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy has inspired many parodies in print

Impressive for a novel that started as the author's husband said it “Erika wrote Fifty Shades to entertain herself and a few online friends.”

The success of this book comes from the fact that a woman wrote it for entertainment and with something real deep to women as the author said herself

“James has described the Fifty Shades trilogy as "my midlife crisis, writ large. All my fantasies in there, and that's it”

And

“E L James: ‘Women do like sex… if it’s done well”

And a survey was done to know the story's impact on aroused level in women.

68% of Women “Aroused” While Watching 50 Shades of Grey in First Nationwide Movie Survey Discussing Sex and Relationships

Married individuals polled the highest percentage of arousal at 71% – higher than Singles at 64% – which isn’t surprising according to experts

The novel uncovered the female desire and fantasies which did help the novel to go to the top best seller book.

Christian Grey is the “hard and rugged bad-boy type male hero who is troubled but strong” by being shown as a charismatic guy but arrogant during the interview.

As quoted by Anastasia, “He is not merely good looking - he is the epitome of male beauty, breathtaking."

And

“So you're a control freak?”

Being charismatic signal the characteristics of grey, here some example:

Grey has extraordinary skills in communication, as he said to be good dealing with people and dealing with Anastasia during the interview,

Grey has maturity and character to be able to run companies while young,

Grey has a sense of humility. In the novel, Grey holds the coat up for Anastasia when she leaves

The list can go on and on.

I know ,Grey doesn’t exist.

But the thing I want to point out is not Grey but the author’s imagination on the character which shows us as Mark Manson said “the blueprint of seduction”

Every signal you show women tells how and what you are.

“The rate at which different qualities are detected in first impressions may be linked to what has been important to survival from an evolutionary perspective.

For example, trustworthiness and attractiveness were the two traits most quickly detected and evaluated in a study of human faces.

People are fairly good at assessing personality traits of others in general, but there appears to be a difference in first impression judgments between older and younger adults.

Older adults judged young adult target photos as healthier, more trustworthy, and less hostile, but more aggressive, than younger adults did of the same photos.

Older adults could have a lower response to negative cues due to a slower processing speed, causing them to see facial features on young adults as more positive than younger adults do.” wikipedia quote on first impression.

The 5 first sec is important for the first impression but the mental image is built with all the signals that a person gives.

If you have a luxury car, it signals that you have money or you have an easy life.

If you dress poorly, it signals that you are poor or are not mature to take care of yourself and so won’t be mature enough to take care of any women.

If you are shy, it signals that you don’t have confidence aka balls to make your move and therefore can’t protect or take care of her.

That's why you can’t “fake it till you make it” so well.

Every reject will hurt yourself deep inside if you don’t care about the signals you project to anyone.

Seduction is about self development.

Let’s flip the coin to understand.

If christian grey is the perfect man in 50 shades of grey for women

What about men ?

Consider sex.

Some love big girls, others love slim, others curvy.

But to be have a concrete example for signal for men just imagine that there are 2 women you can have sex.

The first one is have the perfect body aka 10/10

And the other is have an “OK” body like a 5/10

But here the catch.

The first won’t put effort on bed with you and you can’t cum where you want.

But the other one will do every crazy position with you and when you cum, you will see her play with your cum by herself.

Which one will you will love to have sex with ?

I don’t know about you but for me, I will definitely go with the “OK” body cause she will make me feel great by enjoying doing those crazy positions and playing with my cum.

She would signals me how much she do enjoy having sex with me and it not about how crazy she is but how much she love it by the signal she shows.

As you have a preference with what women you want in your life, they too have a preference of what they want cause they are humans and no one wants to be ridiculed.

You have to show signals that she will make her “win” by being with you.

Improve on your personal mental image:

style, grooming, hairstyle and having a purpose in life are basic ways to improve the signals you show.

One thing to consider, every woman has a purpose in life at a given time so accept the facts that you will get rejected by some according to what you want and purpose you want to fulfill.

My advice for mental image would be to research what makes you look your best so to improve external signals such as style, hairstyle and grooming.

For interaction here's 2 books,

“How to win friends and influence people” to improve massively your interaction and “models” for seduction.

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