Wassup guys , so I’ve been talking to this girl for a while and want to kiss her but to be honest I’m kind of frightened because I don’t want to fuck it up with her. Every girl I’ve kissed before says I’m really bad and I have no idea why ? I really struggle for some reason , apparently I’m too quick and kind of aggressive with it and really don’t know how to improve. I don’t fully understand how to kiss and I know this may sound stupid but like when I’m leaning in to kiss her

1) do I just pucker up my lips (leave small space) and than aim to kiss her bottom lip so ours lips are in between ? 2) and than when you kiss should you be really gentle with the kisses so they are soft. 3) how quickly should I kiss her like I just have so many questions not really sure guys , really need all your help !!! Thank you so much!