Balancing Multiple Girls

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-05-05T18:10:46+00:00

Dating multiple women is a lot of work.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-05-05T19:01:16+00:00

The modern day “dating” as in “fucking and pretend care “

The answer : 1 time a week each

Prioritisation is ONLY if you are in a relationship (an actual one ) with one she gets first dips and more time (depending on attachment levels )

Not Fixating : Don’t consider her more than what she is . just get laid the fastest way possible and arrange for next week .

*Remember relationship purgatory (not knowing where you stand on that topic ) is your bff here .

*If one starts bitching about a date take her out get laid and then back to normal times until next time .

Or dating as in a relationship :

Don’t you will only fuck yourself . It is to hard to manage 3 clingy women at the same time .

If you go down this road 2 should be side chicks (with very little priority ) and 1 should be a main .

Or do you mean as a 4some with 3 girls and 1 dude

I don’t know my ears are not build for that much bitching .

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-05-05T21:49:48+00:00

At least once a week, but some need more attention so you need to dedicate 2 days a week for them. YMMV

Full_Comfort8919 · 2024-05-06T00:33:09+00:00

Its tough to seriously date multiple at the same time. Usually you need low maintenance girls for this to be possible. Pick the one you like the best and focus on her, keep some plates spinning on the side if you will.

if your using online dating to get them, you’re in for a bad time, as you simply wont be able to keep up dating that many people, and then you get tempted by a new girl on the app and you need to stop it with one of your current girls to have time to see the new girl, and the circle continues.

PerforatedEdge · 2024-05-06T06:57:24+00:00

Same way I choose places to eat. I have my regular spots on a rotation depending on craving and convenience. Only difference is you need to show face with the dates to keep them on the roster. Each one is different and some need more frequent attention. When I'm with a girl, I try to make it the best time for both of us. If I find myself unmotivated to do so, I end things or hand them the reigns till things fade.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-05-06T03:34:20+00:00

I'm married and polyamorous.

I see my gf and my FWB once a week. Sometimes we all meet up and hang out together for a game night or other adult activities.

And how do you prevent getting fixated on one if you prefer her?

I don't see an issue here. What's wrong with having feelings?

Kagenikakushiteru · 2024-05-05T18:08:36+00:00

What's so hard? I do that every week.

Title	Balancing Multiple Girls
Author	Spazzinn
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 5, 2024 5:45 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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