Seddit, be prepared for a long post. TL;DR is at the bottom for those wishing to skip, though.

I've lost a fuck-buddy/potential girlfriend to fucked up circumstances.

About three weeks ago I had just checked out of my two month stay in jail. The day I got out I decided I wanted to grab a bite to eat, so I choose Subway which was the first thing in sight upon realization of my hunger. This is where I meet X.

She's making my sandwhich, all the while I'm smooth talking. I get my sandwich, pay, wink at her, and sit down with my friend who came in with me. We start shootin' shit while the lunch hour is about halfway through. All the while she's looking at me, smiling, etc.

So I take my pen out of my pocket, grab a napkin, and walk up to her and say, "Give me a call if you're ever looking to have a good time." Wink, exit. Two hours later, I get a text. We flirt, I dodge all the shit tests, etc. We set up a date for the next night, Friday night.

Friday night comes through, and I pick her up. I have about fifteen miles to drive between her house and our destination, so conversation takes hold. She's into me, I'm into her. I know I am getting laid tonight.

We eat dinner, talk a little bit, get some wine, and talk some more. It's 9:00. I ask her if she wants to go bowling. (get to look at that ass, and plus I can roll) Yup, you bet she does. After two games she's 2 - 0, winning only by 1 point in each game. Her scoreboard has misses, spares, and a lack of strikes all up and down it. Mine? Either miss or strike. All intentional.

We make it back to my place, and I ask if she wants a drink. She says yeah, so I mix up some White Russians. We're chillin, she's on my lap, hanging onto every last word I'm using to describe the beautiful mountains in New York I was just in.

The tension keeps building, but I keep dismissing her moves. So somehow (I forget how this happened) a movie gets put in and we're laying on my bed watching it. Bingo.

The movie is a scary one, so she's cuddling up close to me. In about an hour her head is on my chest and she's clutching me like I'm about to disappear. This is where I go in for the kiss.

Boom kiss. I pull back, she fucking leaps on top of me. We get freaky.

I take her back to her place after we bang, she says she'll call me in the morning.

I wake up to her phone call, she asks to hang out I say no I'm going back to bed but will get a hold of her later in the day. She says alright.

As the sun goes down, parties start to pop. I text her, without letting her know of my knowledge of parties happening, asking if she's still trying to chill. She says no.

This is where Girl Y comes into play.

So I call Girl Y, ask her to hang out and fuck. She's down to clown. So I'm on my way to her house, and I get a phone call from my friend. He says they're having a formal party and that I am invited.

I text Y and tell her to wear something dressy. She's coming out of the house wearing a red dress that show her tits in their full glory. I tell her that her tits are in full glory. She puts my hands on them. Life is complete :D

But back to the story, we get to the party and I feel the need to let X know what she's missing out on. So I text her, "Hey it's a bummer you didn't come out tonight, my friend Y and I found ourselves at a formal party tonight. I hope you're having a good evening though. :("

She drops a text back saying she would have gone.

I don't give a fuck, stay fresh to death, and go home with two women, Y and a Blonde whose boyfriend left early.

So, through the next three weeks we're hanging out, X and I are. We smoke, fuck, smoke, fuck, party. Nobody can stop this train. All the while she has a boyfriend. Uh oh.

So I get a text from her saying, "I belong with my boyfriend, blah blah blah sorry if I hurt you and started something."

To which I say, come over to my house lets talk this out over a blunt.

We smoke, but I keep my body language reserved. I'm no longer kissing on her, opening myself up so she can get close, etc.

She's going on about how she thinks we should stay friends and that she's had a good time with me. To which I tell her, she was nothing more than a friend to me. Boom, she's realizing she's been friend zoned a while back. Now she changes her tone.

She keeps giving me IOIs but, they're all shot down. We finish smoking, I hug her and tell her what a good friend she is, and then take her home.

As she prepares to get out of my car she's looking for that kiss. I drop the deuces and say later.

Next day she's asking to come over and kick it with me. We fuck.

So, the next day I'm coming through like we talked about and we're going to pick up some buds. I offer to her to take a road trip to my hometown for the day, kick it with the homies, and score some med grade buds. She's down.

So we're two hours away from her boyfriend, her town, and everyone she knows. And she's having a blast. We play poke at my dude's crib and I take everything with a flush. She's giving me that "I wanna suck yo dick" look.

We're driving, and she's sucking my dick. Back to my crib, we fuck. She stays the night.

The Next Morning

It's 9:43 AM and she has 23 missed calls, 40 missed texts, and 12 voicemails. Most of them her boyfriend, the ones that aren't her boyfriend's are from her friends and fam telling her that her bf is looking for her and me.

She's panicking. She missed work, didn't tell her bf where she was staying, etc. I calm her down, tell her everything will be alright. We make love for the next nine hours with breaks in between for smoke, drink, and food.

I take her home, and tell her that I am sorry that everything has turned out so badly after what we had was so good. She agrees.

Her boyfriend calls me and threatens me, I tell him that if he comes anywhere near me he is going to learn the meaning of pain. He tells me stay away, I tell him he best tell his girl to stay away from me. He blows up, I keep my cool. I tell this dude that if I ever see him there won't be anymore words out in the open, just blood. He tries to act like he's not scared, but he is. I can hear it in his voice.

He's not a problem after this, at least in this sense.

She's avoiding my texts, my calls, etc. Eventually I find out that X's boyfriend learned everything from Y. Y was jealous and exposed the fling I had with X.

So I get a text from X about three days ago saying, "I'm sorry, I thought I was going to stay single and party, but I was wrong. I belong with BF. Sorry for causing so much drama for you. I had a good time regardless of the repurcussions. I still want to be friends, but given the situation I don't think its physically possible. And Y told him everything, I saw it."

To which I reply "I don't give a fuck about your BF, Y, or anything other than you babe. All I do give a fuck about is getting to see you one last time before I leave this place and you behind. I just hope to god I leave you better off than when I found you, because you deserve so much more than what life has given you. You don't gotta apologize for shit."

She replies, "You really think so?" "Of course babe." "You're so nice to me" "Somebody's got to be."

And so forth.

The next night I am utterly fucked up, drunk, high, whatnot and I text her saying that she needs a man who will treat her right, that I'd be her love, friend, boo, or whatever it took to keep hanging out with her.

Bad move, right? Right.

So Seddit, I come to you asking how do I maintain this girl as a fuck buddy? She's a freak and fucks like no other girl I've met. And I want her back. I'm bout to go out of town for a few days, is stopping by her work and asking her to hangout whenever I get back a bad move?

In the meantime I've had sex with 4 other women and most of them arranged through Social Networking sites where my plans are public. This isn't intentional. But its working out to my advantage, I believe.

So I don't know what to do. This has never happened. And from one man to other men here, I ask for your advice on where I have failed.

NOTES: Y does not acknowledge telling X's BF X wants to chill with me still Y is now my best friend's GF

TL;DR

Got out of jail, met girl, had excellent time with girl for three weeks, turns out she has a bf, spends time with bf, tells me just friends, we continue to sex it up, bf finds out, now what do?