We've learned throughout our lives that you have to compete in order to make it in this world. When it comes to the world of dating, the last thing you want to compete for is the love and respect of a woman. You have more important things in your life to worry about than if your girlfriend or wife is gonna bang your best friend.

This is why I say you want to be the prize that women have to earn, not be the man who has to compete with other men.

Picture this. You're working on yourself. You're losing body fat and gaining muscle. You're starting a new business or building up your career. You're becoming more and more emotionally and mentally strong. You have a stockpile of resources at your disposal that can ensure the survival of you and the woman you get with, which can later on help the family survive. On top of that, you're smarter and know how to deal with the women in your life.

Do you think a woman is gonna test you all the time? Do you think a woman is gonna flake on you if you decide to ask her out? As a matter of fact, she may be trying to ask you out!

"Don't rely on a woman asking you out"

This is true, but when you reach a certain level in your life, women will start competing for you. If you were to put 5 women in a room who are attracted to you, they'll try to make themselves the right pick for you. Think of the TV show "The Bachelor". When a man becomes the prize, he can coast through life fairly easy when it comes to women. Wherever he goes, women will approach him or show some type of interest.

This does not mean floss and flaunt your money. It means learn how to make yourself into the man you respect when you look in the mirror. You may be young now, but if you get married and have children, you want limited resistance from your wife and kids. When you speak, you want your words to carry weight and mean something. If you get serious with a girl, you want her to feel like if she fucks up, she will have to go back to "ain't shit men".

You don't have to be a billionaire. You don't even need to be a millionaire. You don't have to give women gifts and take them on exotic trips to display your worth. However, you want to start taking the steps to have a reliable source of income that will allow you to live on your own and also provide for your woman and future children.

When you become the prize, you can make demands in the relationship. Women know that men love sex and all she has to do is wave "it" in his face and she can get him to do whatever she wants. This is why a lot of married men have a "Yes Dear" mentality. When you become the prize, she will be trying to win you over (no pun intended). So if you want sex, she knows that she can't use it as a bargaining chip because there are tons of hotter women who can easily replace her if she doesn't put out.

So ask yourself,

"Do I want to compete with other men to get the hot girl, or do I want to be the prize where tons of hot women are competing for me?"