When learning about seduction/pick up, it can see overwhelming. "I need to remember to do this, and do that, but not do that too much" etc etc. But the reality is this isn't something you are learning for the first time. It's in your DNA. Just as girls play the hard to get game designed to encourage competition and ultimately selection of the best mate, you too are hardwired to know instinctively how to compete for women and impress them. You just need to let it out.

The issue is that society has demonised this behaviour, it has tried to stomp competition out of the modern man. Why? Simple. Too many competitive, testosterone-driven men are not condusive to a stable society. It is necessary to repress their competitive instincts in order to have a large scale stable society, or there would be chaos. It's no wonder most criminals are men, testosterone makes you take risks to get what you want. It's also no coincidence criminals are often seen as attractive by women. Regardless of what society says, deep down women instinctively want a man who will get what he wants regardless of the cost. Be that man.

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That doesn't mean be a criminal. You need to be smart. You can get what you want without breaking the law. It's not that criminals themselves are inherently attractive but that men who get what they want are more likely to be criminals, and thus there is a very high correlation with the kind of men that are attractive to women. What a girl means when she says she likes a bad boy is 'I like a man who will get what he wants'.