Hey y’all! Been practicing seduction for the past couple months at CU Boulder but with limited success. I’ve mostly focused on night game and have gotten a lot better at approaching, holding conversation, adding some physical touch, and getting numbers/snaps. However, it never goes farther than that. I’ll set up a date and the girl will cancel/reschedule last minute, or I’ll try to pull her home directly from the bar and she’ll make some excuse (usually about her friends).

I think the issue is not setting enough of a sexual frame, since I seem to keep just making friends. It’s gotten a little discouraging and I’m not sure how to break the plateau. Did anyone else get stuck here as a beginner? What helped you figure out the last step of the interaction, and how can I set a more sexual, less friendly vibe? Thank you!