There isn't too much that I have to say except for the fact that there is a very important difference when BEING CONFIDENT. Being confident in yourself is one thing, it really improves where you get in life afterall, however, for the past few months now as I am becoming more and more confident in myself. I have begun to realize that just because I feel very confident I haven't been entirely looking like it.

Now of course there's posture and all of those exterior looks, but really when you face up to someone that you're unsure about, just because you're being yourself and around people you're cool with, don't be afraid to be loud and proud.

I've been talking to a friend that I've had a very rough and unsuccessful history with, she made a blunt comment the other day about me talking quietly and it seemed not very self confident. I was surprised at first, I can walk up to random girls and guys and just start talking with them. I felt like I was often very sure of myself, I consider myself very attractive and I smile all the time.

Yet, here she was telling me this, like "wtf??" and I realized around this one person I was always struggling to get words out of them. (on an unrelated note she and I sometimes act very close in different circumstances which is quite confusing) So after yesterday I realized that if you want to feel totally in power with yourself and around others you really have to own your voice. Owning that beautiful sound that comes out from you and focusing on yourself will get them out there FOR YOU. Hopefully I'll succeed in this soon but just remember that you're the best that there ever was and failure makes you strong like it has for me.

TL;DR: OWN YOUR VOICE!

EDIT: I don't mean to be loud and obnoxious. I mean just own your voice.