Being extra funny or witty doesn't really help me, but I feel like being normal me is kind of boring. Any advice?

__ManBeast__ · 2017-12-06T16:01:48+00:00

I highly recommend reading Models by Mark Manson, since it covers "being yourself" and how to use it to your advantage.

Basically, just be open and honest, talk about whatever you're passionate about, and don't care whether or not the other person likes you. The key part of "being yourself" is having the confidence to not try to impress people or make them like you. Just do whatever makes you happy and they'll see the value in that

brianbria · 2017-12-06T09:35:32+00:00

Is just being chill and normal enough?

Yes it is. You're enough.

I don't know what else to say, other than I think your post comes off as insecure, and I recommend getting away from rsd or other game things that say you "need to be cocky/funny/entertaining/witty/blah blah blah" you don't need any of that shit. Really you just need to be able to talk to girls, and take action so they know you exist and know what you want and be able to move things forward. Those behaviours are just so that things move along.

But you're enough and you don't need to change your personality or be super interesting.

Title	Being extra funny or witty doesn't really help me, but I feel like being normal me is kind of boring. Any advice?
Author	upandup123
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	December 6, 2017 6:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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