Bumble/Tinder

givenchyboy · 2019-11-19T21:10:06+00:00

I’d say that’s pretty good. A lot of users won’t come close to that number. I’m assuming you’re located in an urban area also, which increases your chances immensely.

SFNovember · 2019-11-19T21:40:28+00:00

90% of bumble first messages: hey

Captain_w00t · 2019-11-19T21:41:16+00:00

Good to know you’re trying to evolve.

In general I avoid OLD apps for dozens of reasons, but it’s fair to try by your own.

That said, keep in mind some of these points:

in the first 24hrs since your signup you get a “boost” of your profile (that means your profile gets put on the top of the stack of other profiles, increasing your opportunities to get seen and have a match
OLD apps are based on similar algorithms, including the ratio between swipes left/right AND how many people swipes left/right on you. This will generate a score that in practice will be applied to your profile and placed by algorithms in the place it thinks you should be.
competition is REALLY HIGH (maybe 10-20+ men for each girl?) and the only weapons are... pics. The time spent by a person to decide which direction to swipe is below the 2-3 seconds at most
OLD apps are companies that monetize through expensive monthly subscriptions. The difference from a service like Spotify is that in theory you are supposed to stop using it once you find a girl/woman. If it really worked like promised, then they either would go bankrupt or they become the next Facebook. Instead, they monetize on desperates until they give up and start going out in real life
the average ratio between time/effort spent on OLD and the results gained is very very poor. Hours of swiping, texting, dating. Check out data graphs on r/Bumble or r/Tinder, there are many. You’ll see that (disclaimer: those are random numbers, but not too far from real ones I’ve seen) in 1000 swipes, maybe only 100 (if you’re lucky) become matches, then only 30 reply to the first/second message, maybe 3 turn into a date, and with a bit of luck and playing your seduction cards like a pro, maybe you’ll even get laid. In real life you can talk with 30 people in a weekend of nightgame.

Try, and let us know ;-)

CaptainPUA · 2019-11-19T22:23:52+00:00

I've deleted all my profiles. In my opinion it's lazy game. To truly build attraction and escalate that day, you need to be there in person.

I can't tell you how many times girls have flaked even though I know i could have kept them in set irl.

RaptorMan333 · 2019-11-20T01:08:59+00:00

Why would you not have both? Don't put too much stock in OLD but it is GREAT for learning. Learning how to text, getting easy meetups and lays to practice. Lots of flaking but it's a numbers game.

Profile is CRUCIAL.

But yes, Bumble is easier because they show interest. However tinder in my experience is for straight up hooking up, and you should definitely take advantage. On bumble i don't really count it as a "match" unless she opens you.

Be aware that these apps use algorithms. They don't just randomly show everyone everyone else. I believe that tinder in general adjusts the quality of the "Cards"(girls) they show you based on kind of a ranking system. If you're regarded as a "7" by their algorithmns, and by the girls swiping on you, they generally won't show you, for example, girls that are ranked as like a 4 or like a 10. They'll show you girls that are like a 6-8. Tinder Plus is worth it IMO. A few bucks per month and you get unlimited swipes, boosts, and the ability to change location before visiting there which is great for vacations.

Things you can do to improve the hotness of the girls you come across: use it often and message often, don't have a super high rate of right swipes, be picky about it. The quality of the girls swiping right on you will improve the hotness of girls that are shown. This is another reason why profile/pics/bio is important.

radshibe · 2019-11-22T01:46:33+00:00

I'm an Asian male and not the pop star looking Asian guy so... I get nothing from apps. Good luck to you though!

Title	Bumble/Tinder
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	November 19, 2019 8:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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