This is something I'm choosing to write up for the hell of it. It will be very counter to the usual seddit philosophy of being honest and being a value giver. Although my normal form of game does involve value giving, at times I'll pull out the asshole game when I'm looking for a one night stand. Truth hurts, but a lot of women out there do love assholes. This post will probably piss a lot of people off, I don't care.
"But steadygold! We should all listen to Mark Manso-" I really don't give a fuck. This subreddit isn't for moral enforcement or to downvote advice that doesn't suit you personally. If it's material on game, it should be allowed to be posted on this sub. This is for anyone who's interested in ever trying out asshole game. Although I am a value giver, personal experiences have shown me when asshole game works, it actually works much better than the normal seddit philosophy that's taught here. As a reminder, this is best used for one night stands, basically it's for when you approach a girl at clubs or other places where you'll probably never see the girl again.
Asshole game goes two ways, you'll either be very successful, or the girl will leave pissed off at you and hate your guts, but why should it matter? She'll never see you again anyway. Whether you like it or not even people like Tyler and Julien in RSD like to use asshole game from time to time when they're calling girls "dogs" while making out with them at the same time. Also, you should focus on using this game on the really preppy and pampered girls who give off a "I'm better than you and everyone else" vibe. I would not recommend it on anyone else.
Cockiness
Part of asshole game involves being overly confident in yourself. Not being afraid to escalate rapidly (while building comfort) and say what's on your mind. Even if it is a straight up insult. As Tyler (Or was it Julien?) once did an infield video, he straight up called a girl a dog and told her to come over to him, she willingly obliged and he wrapped his arms around her and managed to pull off a kiss in less than a minute of talking to her.
How did this work out? Well you need to have the confidence to pull it off, and not the "right amount", but almost a delusional amount, once you're in that state of delusional self confidence you'll exude it. An example is saying something like "Were going home to fuck" when she asks "what are we doing after the club?". Doing things like telling a girl to come over and making fun of her for something, while holding her close, can actually work and build attraction if you manage to pull it off right. Remember, it's all about mindset, I advice you have inner game mastered before you pull off something like this.
Emotions
RSD likes to talk about making a girl feel the full spectrum of emotions. Now, when it comes to value giving game, you focus on making her joyful. In asshole game, you focus on making her feel that full spectrum of emotions. Whether it's happy, angry, or anything else. Why? because as crazy as it sounds making a girl feel that full spectrum of emotions gets her addicted to you. Women love emotions, and when your the man who can make her feel all her emotions then she'll feel a deep sense of neediness for you (whether she wants to or not). Remember that you MUST make her feel attracted to you first before you try to make her experience the rest of the spectrum first, or else it will backfire.
There isn't much of a better way to spike her emotions than cause a little drama, as women enjoy the emotions that they get from feeling that they are in a fantasy romance story. Julien talks about this in one of his videos, where he straight up told a girl he couldn't bang her because he has a girlfriend, right before he was about to fuck her. Women LOVE that drama and in a twisted way she felt much more emotionally attracted to him because he managed to make her feel that full spectrum of emotions.
Being the one with higher value
Seddit philosophy involves you and the girl being equal. In asshole game you must always be the one with the higher value. Don't be afraid to be dominant (not the hit you with a log and drag you to a cave dominance), but the type where you're not afraid to tell her what to do and lead in all your interactions wither.
Establishing higher value involves you showing her that you're not afraid to lose her. Many times I would do things like openly flirt with other women in front of the girl I'm trying to game. In turn she would try harder to get my attention, as women tend to be competitive like that. They'll want that higher value man at the club for themselves.
Other times I'd make jokes at the girl's expense, she'd give me that "Did you just say that about me!?" look and I'll reply with a smirk. She might say something along the lines of "You're mean!" and I would reply with "I'm glad you like it". This shows her that you're not deterred of her looks, establishing your value above hers. It also establishes that you don't really give a shit, and many times that is attractive to women.
Many times you'll have to act like you're to good for her, and basically do and say what's on your mind. Being outcome independent and having an abundant mentality is key to perfecting asshole game.
Summary
-Say whatever you want
-Make jokes at her expense
-Don't give a fuck about anything
-Make her jealous
-Make her feel a spectrum of emotions
-Be cocky, act like your better than her
-Be the one with the higher value
Conclusion
This write up is for anyone who wants to try it out for themselves and really don't care about being assholes. Asshole game is optional, you don't have to use this style of game. In my experience it does get you laid a lot. However, you should only try asshole game out only if you're truly outcome independent and that your personal goals are just to get as much sex as possible.
Also, I'd like to give a toast to my favorite asshole: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzFQrZxGROU
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