Can anyone explain me what "Game" is all about?

WIA20XX · 2019-09-26T16:46:17+00:00

Dating -> Pickup/fast seduction -> Game.

Dating is meeting girls, trying to sell her on a relationship or sex.

The better the guy looks, the more popularity he has, and the more money he spends - the better SOCIETY says he does than the guy who doesn't have all of those things.

To that end, most guys all over the globe, in every country and culture, try to become this superman, who has everything.

The idea is that once I have all of these external things, I will have the confidence to approach, and the girls will act like they should. The girl approaches, the girl does all the work. Girls fight over him. The man does little if any work.

The man can be friendly, he can be friends first, he can meet a girl on common ground, can have commonalities, can be friends with - no negativity ever.

Because he has achieved...

In essence, he will turn himself into the "hot girl". He does nothing, everyone does things for him.

Pickup/fast seduction is about realizing that girls do like the conventional attracting stuff, but they also like a whole lot more. They also like things that are the exact opposite.

Girls will be interested in, attracted to, have sex with, marry, and bear children with guys who are not successful the way that society says a man needs to be.

Young and particularly attractive girls tend to have very varied tastes when it comes to who they are intimate with.

Bad boys, drug users, funny guys with no future, guys that treat them badly, liars, cheaters, thieves. Older men. Men in power. Men that their parents warned them about.

So pickup looks at these "bad guys" and adopts the behaviors of those guys.

A bad boy will

offend the girl.
He will pick on her.
He will insult her.
He will then make it up to her.
He is unpredictable.
He will call her on her bullshit.
He will assert himself.
He will dominate her.
He will be hot and cold.

Like the attractive man turning into a passive hot girl, the pickup artist emulates the behavior of a hot girl.

Game is entirely different. It's used interchangeably with pickup and seduction, but game has zero to do with bagging chicks.

I guess a lot of the gurus selling pickup want to use a "hip" term to explain their programs, but real game is putting a chick on the track and getting her to bring back all the money, getting the congregation to pay you cash money now for heaven in the afterlife, to get votes now for programs and political action that can't ever happen.

It's not something for nothing. Something for nothing is a scam. That's a hustle.

When someone gets that feeling, they are happy, satisfied, but they want more. That's good game.

Why do people keep going back to these churches, self development meetings, "business" opportunities - they're going back for the feeling.

When a guy with game sells a chick on a dream, she knows that it's bullshit - but she enjoys the bullshit.

When people buy lottery tickets, it's not a rational financial decision - but they are buying a glimpse of a better life. It's rational in that it's often the only way they could conceivably have a chance. It's a dream.

When you read a book, watch a movie, listen to a song, you do so in the hope of getting fired up or some other emotional but intangible thing. You want more of that feeling.

That's what game is. That's not what this board is about.

crawleycrepe · 2019-09-26T14:20:02+00:00

Millions of definitions.

For example, you'll see ''just learn game, bro!!!'' but then read that 'what you say doesn't matter', and read things like 'remember you are the prize' and 'be outcome independant' etc, and start wondering 'what the hell is there to actually 'learn' that I can apply?!! haha

Or the only 'practical' thing you'll see is thing like ''Remember to listen to what the girl says and reply with something based on that information'. So, stuff that only Edward Scissorhands would need too actually 'learn'

And then at the other end, there's the mysterymehthod which most people ridicule. (in fairness, the guy that invented it was never that successful at getting laid with his own teachings). But at least with his work, the phrase 'learn game, bro!!' actually makes sense because it's about memorising stories and routines, and following a structure and remember to do certain things and certain stages etc etc.

Now, for real talk time, game is basically the ability to not come across weird and being able to bang girls are (already) attracted to you. It's about escalating smoothly. Not too fast, not too slow. It's remembering to try to be fun. It's about having good body language etc.

It's NOT the black magic jedi mind trick that people who sell you courses want you to believe (the idea that if you do as they tell you, you can basically bang any girl you want, no matter what you look like lol). That's also why you'll often see Q's on thsi sub like ''New girl in my sports club is super hot. How can I seduce her?' and the answers are 'Remember you are the prize. Say hi and Ask her out'. Like. there's nothing that a regular guy doesn't already know.

ntipz011 · 2019-09-26T13:28:13+00:00

It's attracting girls and getting girls who are interested in you in bed. If you can do that you have good game.

WeakEmu8 · 2019-09-26T14:02:38+00:00

Game

Imperator_Pyra · 2019-09-26T13:26:48+00:00

A definition I just googled for you (because I know how hard it is to use google and find something out yourself in 2019) is this: "lines or moves you use to get the opposite sex into bed".

Title	Can anyone explain me what "Game" is all about?
Author	gngladwin
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Date	September 26, 2019 1:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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