I want something like a technical interview guide but for getting girls. Like if the interviewer asks a behavioral question, use the STAR method, if the interviewer asks a coding question, you start by asking clarification question, then unoptimized solution, then optimize, etc. If they ask a systems design question, you say whatever whatever. If you follow the technical interview guide, the interviewer is guaranteed to like you.

Can I get something like this, but for getting girls? I followed the advice on this sub, only to be told I was an idiot and desperate, and I still have no idea why. When I try to talk to girls I get rejected and I have no idea why. When I fail a technical interview, I can point out every mistake that I made, down to the sentence. When I pass, I know exactly why I passed. Why can't I get girls at nightclubs? Where did I fail at? How do I shamelessly hit on girls? How do I stop being afraid?

I have no idea why I'm failing and by extension, I have no idea how to improve.