Can the situation be saved?

Zephyr4813 · 2018-09-16T21:13:28+00:00

I straight up told a girl that I didn't want to talk to her if she was in a committed relationship. She whined about it and didn't want me to leave but I moved forward and met new girls.

Eventually she broke up with her boyfriend and found her way to my life.

Ghosting seems childish. Maybe just say why you don't want to talk to her and then not talk to her?

MrDownhillRacer · 2018-09-16T22:06:41+00:00

Forget her and meet new people.

If you "wait around" for her to break up with her boyfriend, she'll just understand that you will always be a viable "plan B" for her, and that she can do whatever the fuck she wants, treat you however the fuck she wants, and still fall back on you. She's already shown she's willing to be unfaithful to one person. What makes you think she'll treat you any differently?

She's a user. Find somebody interested in a mutual offering of value in each participant's life.

Evan87688 · 2018-09-16T23:36:33+00:00

It all comes down to what you value.

K3wp · 2018-09-16T23:44:32+00:00

Situations like this are the foundation of my system.

Connect emotionally and don't develop a dependence. Keep seeing other people.

Only break it off if she gets possessive or controlling.

sinbad2011 · 2018-09-17T01:51:30+00:00

Find a way to meet new people. If you're trying to make a good relationship with her, she will likely cheat on you. You don't share values. But, if u want to bang her in the future and be her friend, then stay friends only and bang her after she breaks up with her bf.

Title	Can the situation be saved?
Author	Xarpapa
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	September 16, 2018 8:58 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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