Why in the fuck are you "trying" so hard to get her attention?? Why in the fuck are you "trying" to pretend to be someone you're and not being your authentic you?! Why in the fuck are you spending $200 on a first fucking date (based on a true story)?! You know she can sense you trying too hard and it's a major turn off. She wants to be with someone who's their authentic self, their natural self and sometimes you do that and she's not interested. That's okay, because that just means she wasn't the one for you, you move the fuck on!! To quote Mark Manson "Stop trying to act like an attractive man and be one".

That's all warrior, stay strong!!