The general pua narrative seems to be that you should make getting women one of your priorities as long as you can because you have a window in which you can actively pursue young women without it being creepy and with the interactions being based on real attraction instead of a transactional occurence (get women via money). This part is correct. This is usually only doable in your twenties and somewhat in your thirties. But
Always remember that unless you only want one-night-stands and very short-lived interactions, women can sense whether you got other, interesting shit in your life going on rather than just women and if you don't, that shit is an instant repellent. So, while it's true that you need to actively pursue women, it's also true that this can backfire. If you're like me whose main demographic is university-educated women, I wouldn't worry about too much about putting effort into "standalone picking up chicks" activities.
Put yourself in environments that women are naturally are part of. A Volleyball, a yoga, dancing or meditation course. A language seminar. Do things you're interested in and you will get to know women that you're going to click with much faster. I personally have realized that demographics play a huge role. Find your niche(s) and accept that there's only a small percentage of women you're compatible with anyway. We don't need to attract all women. And lastly, I do think we just need to relax a bit. I'm in my late twenties so I definitely have some type of last minute panic from time to time as I want to have more experiences with women than those that I've had but I'm starting to realize that fear is of no use. Imagine approaching women everyday, then meeting an actual interesting one. She tells you how she's doing this interesting training and in your mind you're like "Holy fuck, people are doing things that are actually important to them and here I am approaching women all day". This is not to say that generally doing approaches is a bad idea. Not at all. Just that a lot of dating coaches on the internet put pressure on impressiobale young men , making them think they need to be constantly banging women every other week while I've known very content and attractive men who've had less than 5 women in their lifetime.
TLTR : I suggest, do things you're interested in, participate in activities women are part of. Realize that making loads of time for pursuing women isn't a good strategy because then you don't actually have anything interesting to tell about yourself when you're interacting with them. No woman likes a man who is constantly available. Don't panic that you may miss out on something and let the chips where they may fall.
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