So these days I’ve been trying dating apps and I’ve got a decent amount of matches in not much time.

I’ve gotten some phone numbers and social media, even without asking. But a lot of the women I talk to even the ones that have given me their personal contact after a while stop caring to answer, and they don’t even reach out at all.

Now I get that it’s quite common for people to even unfollow or disappear. But some are still watching my stories or answering a message from time to time, but almost none of them cares enough to reach out.

And few are the ones that I got to ask out and unfortunately we haven’t been able to meet. Due to exams and Easter vacations. But still I’m tired of starting out good and then having to be the one putting more energy. Even if I have more options this cycle is repetitive.

I do try to get to know the person and add some spice in the chat if the tone is right.

I’m writing this not as a rant, but I’m wondering what do others do that have women stuck in their phones waiting for a reply? I know there is more than chatting, but I feel I could improve