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[–]Boob__Fart 17 points18 points19 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she's into you you should make sure she catches you staring. That way she knows where you intent lies too
[–]My3centsItsWorthMore 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Everyone here seems to be saying you should make a note to stare at her cleavage, and to make sure she catches you. There is nothing wrong with your eyes drifting down for a peek, and even for her to see it, but this really does not sound like a viable way to go about seducing women. Am I taking crazy pills here?
[–]threewawway 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We're on his subreddit for a reason, take their advice, I now know to look at everyone's cleavage.
[–]Murfdigidy 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It depends actually, in the beginning DO NOT LOOK at cleavage, just no no. In the beginning it's eye fucking only, look her in the eye and get to know her (just like she is with you).
ONCE you know you've built attraction THEN you can have her catching u glancing at her cleavage or even her mouth. When you're gazing into each other's eyes start looking at her lips too. This signals kissing, when she starts staring at your lips boom go in for the kiss she definitely wants u to.
But like I said, cleavage is only acceptable when the girl has given you solid IOIs and you think she's attracted
[–]My3centsItsWorthMore 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sounds like a much more reasonable way of putting it
[–]niggsponge 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look when you are right in the middle of saying something to her then look back into her eyes before your sentence is over.
[–]saulisdating 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here's the correct way of dealing with it:
Just look at her cleavage whenever you want to. Whether she notices or not doesn't really matter. If she mentions it, just smile and address it, that you like what you see. If she doesn't, it doesn't matter.
Dude, you're supposed to just do whatever it is that you want to do - it's called being authentic and genuine.
Stop worrying whether you should or shouldn't look at her cleavage, and for how long, and if she notices you or not - and start worrying about more important things - such as having fun together.
Because right now it seems that you're stuck too much in your head and are overthinking things.
There's absolutely nothing wrong about looking at her cleavage or not looking - it's totally up to you. I had tons of dates where I did and I didn't, depending on the moment - and it had zero effect on the ultimate outcome.
But if you draw too much unnecessary attention to the fact that you're obsessing over her cleavage, and start to act weird - she'll notice and it WILL have a negative effect on how everything turns out. She'll notice that you care about such things and that you don't have your shit together, and won't respect you.
So my answer is - stop worrying about such irrelevant things and just do what you wanna do, unapologetically.
[–]gonzoll 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Look at her mouth. Then she's not sure if you're looking at her tits or in the eye
[–]EpicVuze3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Lol savage
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
They do it on purpose - they want guys to notice.
[–]Comyu 9 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
But where is the line between dominant and pervert
[–]JackRabbit- 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A quick glance is usually OK.
Full on staring, like >5 seconds is pervy
[–]senoricceman 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agree with this guy, glances show you like how she looks. Full on staring for five seconds is just creepy.
[–]Pitchfork51 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you are attractive.
[–]derpyderpderpp 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
they want guys to notice.
They want certain guys to notice.
[–]LobsterJason -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
make it obvious her tits are unbelievable. maybe look + a "wow ;)"
then stare at them whenever you want during a conversation, that's the alpha way.
[–]Kevin_the_Bold -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't look at all. Engage her and look directly in her eyes. Show her that you are interested in her personality and then say things that let her know you find her attractive.
[–]CrystalQuartzen0 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Here's my favorite way to react to cleavage:
Do you like boats? Like, what's your favorite kind of boat?
You want to know mine? Motorboats.
If she laughs stick your face in those titties.
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