I've always heard that I need to ABC, but I feel like I am trying to close way too fast.

Example. Match with girl on tinder. We start texting for about an hour or two. She seems like she is really into me but when I ask her to hang out I get rejected or they flake.

I understand that girls probably don't want to come over or hang out with in the first hour of meeting someone but I've also read on here that I should not be texting girls unless we are setting dates or making plans. I feel like I am missing a step here, once I feel like a girl is into me I try to F close, and so far it hasn't been working. But I've also texted girls for a week or two and they just stopped responding because I assume, I waited too long.

Do any of you guys have any ideas/tips or have any of you guys experienced this?