This is a mix of a small FR and a question follow up. If anyone has been following my previous post, its has led to this so far.

Coffee FR- This isn't that long, it was a quick date and I had to bail because my brother had to go to the hospital.

As I mentioned before with my progress here I am trying to get close with this HB8 from work. With our last meet up I suggested coffee with her and she wanted to check the place out. I meet her there and I got a feeling that when I was talking to my buddy on the phone helped me in a way. He was going to an important lunch with needed a suit and tie. Asked for my advice and I suggested classy (black suit, white button down and black tie). HB8 just heard, I think, "black on white, it always works." She then asks

HB8 - Who was that.

Me - Friend of mine asking fashion advice.

HB8 - Guy friend of yours asking about fashion, riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

Me - Lol, like I've said before, I know a little bit of everything.

Fast forward to the date and everything was a casual. The entire time it was pretty much getting to know one another. Some similar interest but not much sexual tension to go off of. The entire time I was wondering what the hell to talk about to get to know her because I always feel kinda weird diving into tricky "personal points of view" (religion, morals, politics, sex, ect). I pretty sure it's listed here somewhere but my strategy was pointing out other people and taking a guess (cold reading) on their personalities. I do 2 or 3 then ask her opinion on such and such. She was wondering what my guesses were off of and then I started to kino. Touching and rubbing her lower back, neck and shoulders. Saying body language, type and posture. Teasing her "Wow, your back and neck is so tense (I starting rubbing, then neg), you don't have to try this hard to impress me, lol."

The only sexual tension that appeared was when she was getting in on the guessing game. When she pointed out in the room a HB7, tried getting a few reads off of her then asked what I thought. That conversation ended with me saying "She's smiling that big because shes getting great sex or she found a guy that likes the same weird sexy stuff she likes, lol." After I say this I needed or felt I needed to try and put it into better words. I think I steered it in the wrong direction here but it got us to start talking about what we're "in" to. She seemed hesitant to answer first because she said "You first then me because I know I'll go for sure if you go." I play that game to so I trusted she would go after. I tell her "one thing that gets me off the most is when a woman is making her O face and (how I read it) is having a hard time deciding weather for me to stop or keep going. When I see that face being made I" ------- RING - its your baby bro. I fucked up my hand and need to be driven to the hospital.

Me - "I got to go! There was an accident and I need to drive my bro to the hospital. Lets rain check this."

Dinner Another small FR, and it will be small.

I'm in Richmond, VA for my buddy's1 college graduation. To speed this long post up here are the important stuff.

-Meet up with another buddy 2 for the grad. -Try shrooms for the first time. -Next day we go out that night. -Buddy 2 introduces me to girls, one which is in charge of setting up art display at local show. -Attend show and try MDMA new girl thats setting up art display.

  • Tripping balls (She said "I'm happy I got you to try this kind for the first time") I follow with words I can't remember.
  • I ended talking it up with the art girl for most of the time but don't remember the second half because of booze. But ended up with her number saying that I was cool. VICTORY!!!!

This brings me to the AFC portion. The entire fucking time he was hanging around. Wouldn't fuckin let me be and was just a struggle to keep him down the entire time. It was over simple shit mostly. The show I attended has the music all the way up and only way to talk with each other was on the phone. It was mostly AA but it was as simple as "Hey, you seem cool. Lets grab a drink and dance for a bit." But when I finally got over the AA, I still felt like my heart was going to jump out my chest and controlling my breathing was difficult as well.

I assume to finally destroy your AFC inside you, you just need to keep going out. Is there other methods that you folks have used to get rid of him. How long did it take for you to get rid of him.