Introduction

Yo what's up boys, it's AsianAdonis back at it again.

Anyway, apparently many guys have trouble getting started with cold approach so here's a cold approach guide based on my experiences.

GUIDE

Looks

Looks are the first step. If you're truly clapped (super fat as in above 25% bodyfat with no muscle), then you need to amp them up. This is because you have to meet a minimum attractiveness threshold for a girl to find you attractive (usually not that high, around a year of consistent lifting for most women including hot girls). Therefore, you will get instantly destroyed a lot if your looks are trash.

Don't focus on stuff you can't feasibly change (These factors matter too much anyway e.g face shape, height, race) and focus instead on shit that you can change, like muscle mass + style.

The hotter you are, the easier the approach will be however your mindset still needs to be in the right place. As I said, looks are getting the interview. If your looks are trash (below her attractiveness threshold), you're fighting an extremely uphill battle.

Mindset

Your mindset should be that you are a fun and attractive guy and that you're here to have fun + screen for girls that are interested. Your mindset shouldn't be "Let me use my silver tongue to manipulate this girl into sleeping with me so I can get more lays". That's needy and pathetic and girls can sense that shit. In other words, you're the prize and you're screening for girls that you vibe with (and also that you think are hot).

Approach anxiety

Approach anxiety is a real thing. You just have to put in the reps and understand that nothing bad will happen from rejection. The people judging you from the sidelines? They don't have the strength and balls that you do and they'll probably forget you in 2 hours. Girls also won't #Metoo you if you just go up and give them a genuine compliment because girls get cold approached super often, especially if they're hot so they'll let you down easy. I've done over 600 approaches and the most vitriolic response was some chick scoffing in my face and walking away.

What do I say

You can literally say anything but most of my conversations are simple get to know you conversations with some light teasing. Light teasing = making observational remarks like "you look like you squat 3-4 times a week" or something similar. I usually ask then for their name, age, what they're doing there and hobbies. The topic doesn't really matter, what matters is your vibe, which should be fun and flirty + IDGAF.

Conclusion

I hope you guys got something of value out of this post. I've uploaded a video detailing every single one of these elements in much greater detail.

Video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CI6lN41S3kc

Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFGBhjOQP509R7pRg__dBfg

Just remember the KISS model (keep it simple stupid). Your looks matter 100% for physical attraction, while your vibe fills in the rest of the slots. Just don't do anything super creepy (like drop a pencil and wait for her to look at you before starting a conversation, that's autistic af) and you'll be fine.

Go out there and COLD APPROACH BOYS!!!!!

AsianAdonis Out!