Cold approach northern women

Esmond_Mutt2323 · 2022-03-04T02:47:24+00:00

As lifelong southern New Englander who has also spent a lot of time in NYC, and Northern NJ, I can tell you to just get used to it. In my travels outside the region I’ve found Southern girls and Midwestern girls (well, people in general) to be far more approachable and friendly.

brooklynboy43 · 2022-03-04T05:07:18+00:00

You just have to keep shooting and you’ll eventually find some. I lived in philly last year and when I first started cold approaching I was getting constantly rejected but you’ll eventually meet girls.

invaderjif · 2022-03-04T05:48:57+00:00

Jon snow did it.

And he knew nothing.

rwalsh138 · 2022-03-04T19:50:41+00:00

I'm from NJ and the women aren't as friendly and approachable. It's taken me a while to figure out the approach. Basically, you have to approach without them knowing you're approaching. If they smell thirstiness on you, you're done. You have to seem INTERESTING, not INTERESTED.

There's no straight-forward answer I can give you. All I can say is, you have the first twenty seconds speaking to them to intrigue them. Whatever you say better be funny/interesting/intriguing and have them feeling the need to ask you questions. In NJ/NY, women constantly have their guard up. When you speak to them, you can see in their eyes that they are in fight or flight mode, until you disarm them with a joke and then they see they can trust you.

BangaiiWatchman · 2022-03-04T02:39:32+00:00

I don’t think there’s much response variance through different areas of the US. What is your cold approach?

2022-03-04T21:24:22+00:00

Since they're from up north they're probably used to the cold, maybe cold approaching is not the best strategy ;) ;) I am very lonely

Title	Cold approach northern women
Author	Mysterious_Tour_8106
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	March 4, 2022 2:22 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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