Before you can cold approach with any real success you need several basics handled.

  1. LOOKS

a. From untrained add 10-20 pounds muscle. b. Reach 8-10% bodyfat c. GET YOUR TEETH CLEAN AND WHITE AND STRAIGHT - your smile is a huge weapon in the arsenal.

  1. STYLE

a. Clothes that properly fit. b. Either choose a niche that fits you or go with the universal currency of smart casual. c. Haircut that suits your face and style and is masculine d. ALWAYS SMELL GOOD. ALWAYS ALWAYS SMELL GOOD FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. TAKE SHOWERS WEAR GOOD COLOGNE. e. ALWAYS HAVE GOOD BREATH FFS. f. Find your simple hack. Every guy has 1 thing thats pretty minor but easy to do that will provide a huge boost. Maybe you need highlights, maybe some special contacts, maybe a hard part, etc. Find your FREE BINGO SPACE in the game. You have one.

  1. EXTRAVERSION + EMOTIONAL STABILITY

a. Always be chatting people up. b. Always take everything life throws at you with a smirk and nod: good or bad. c. NEVER EXPRESS DOUBT OR WEAKNESS. HOWS YOUR DAY/NIGHT? JUST FUCKING GREAT AND THANKS FOR ASKING. d. Never take alfalfa male bait. If a dude tries to tool you it is irrelevant if the girl likes you. If she responds to it, she didn't dig you that much. Never lower yourself to directly engage competitors. e. Lift people up whenever you can. You never know when they could lend a helping hand.

honestly, if you follow the above the only reasons you'll be getting rejected will have 0 to do with how hawt you are and everything to do with where she's at regarding availability.

  1. VENUE SELECTION

a. AVOID CLUBS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. b. Aim for club/bar hybrids in a scene. Most every big city has them, usually downtown. High ROI. c. Find the spots in a venue where you can post up without looking like a creep but also where people can see you (ya takes some knowhow)

  1. TO WING OR NOT TO WING

Personally if I'm gonna go out to get laid, I roll solo. Too many moving parts with another person.

But if you're just going out with your boys to have fun, then just make sure to low effort talk to a few girls while you're there to make what use of the social proof being out with friends gives you.

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The first 3 sections are pretty much projects that can take months to years to get right.

Game is sales. And sales is 90% PRODUCT. WORK HARD ON THE PRODUCT.