So my life has turned into a bit of a sitcom and I need some help with dating girls from the same sorority. I’ll be brief with what’s happened:

  • Dated a girl from a sorority two months ago for a couple weeks. Went on dates but she ended up liking another dude better
  • I go to a nearby university but not in the same Greek life as them
  • I’ve gotten 5 matches from girls in the same house as the girl I was with a month ago.
  • Since that date, the previous 4 matches won’t carry a conversation with me
  • I’m worried they talk about me since girls talk.

I got another match today with a girl (number 5) who is housemates with that girl I dated, but I need some tips at sending good messages over Hinge to convince her to give me her number/go on a date without influence from the other girls.

This is what I’ve sent so far.

Should I double message with a question? Her profile photos are of her going to Paris. Her profile doesn’t hint that they are in the same sorority, so I can’t ask about that.