I noticed that when I'm single, I'm fine. I don't care about what the girl does, etc. But due to past hurts, whenever I start getting close to a girl (starting relationship/relationship), I start to feel incredibly anxious, needy, and struggle with constant fears of abandonment.

How do I overcome this? This is one of my game's weakest points, and one of the biggest areas of my life I need to improve on. I'm so scared of them cheating, being hurt, abandoning me that even though I don't show it or try to let my actions dictate it, some of this anxiety may be seeping through and eventually driving the girl away. I even know I can meet a bunch of girls, and I've done the whole hook up with many before.

How do I overcome this deep rooted fear of mine from old hurts? I want to be better than that.