I hit the gym and have always been in good shape, but it hasn’t really varied much over time.

But my daughter shares a babysitter with another kid, and when pickup time came, the mom has said:

“Have you been working out?” And “Have you lost weight” When we were alone.

And in a group setting she told my current gf “John is on his fitness journey!” After I gave her a hug. I was wearing a sweater at the time, so nothing to really go off of visually.

She also told my gf some revealing stuff about HER sex life, like how she “gives” her bf sex barely ever but he likes handjobs.

I think she was trying to filter this through my wife so that I found out?

Keep in mind i have not talked to this woman much beyond courtesies before and we’ve only hung out as a group once…

Looking too far into this?