Examples:

“Who were you talking to on the phone?” “Phil Phillips from the Philippines” “No, really, who.” “Are you ignoring me?”

“At 5 p.m. we’ll go” “Why 5 p.m., my mom is coming at 4:30?” “We’ll go at 5” “Why?” (Obstinate stare)

“Why didn’t you come right home” “Because I chose not to.” “Why???”

(Insert any choice I make here on behalf of the family) “Why” “Because that is the choice i’ve made”

How much longer of this crap am I going to have to endure?

She has categorized me as being someone who only wants to do something if it’s my idea. So it doesn’t seem to be a case of perceived uncertainty or anything…and she will always ask my opinion or thoughts on things before making plans or asking about what to do on the weekend or something…